The little things that cost us nothing to do often matter more than we ever know. Have you ever had a stranger do something that brightened your day? It might have been a small but thoughtful gesture the other person quickly forgot but you remembered. It doesn’t take much to boost someone’s spirits, to make [...]
A choice that means the difference between peace and frustration Recently I gave a talk on embracing change to a group of people facing some drastic transformations in their workplace. One of the points I made was the importance of living in the present. Not long after that, I heard an old 60s song, “Let’s [...]
Now I See: How God’s Amazing Grace Transforms the Deepest Pain to Shining Joy Janet Perez Eckles JC Empowerment Ministries “I see,” said the blind man as he picked up his hammer and saw. My grandmother used to say that when she wanted to let us know she understood something. Even as a youngster, [...]
If the Bible doesn’t specifically forbid something, is it okay to do? When you’re trying to live a life as free from sin as possible, following the Bible is the best place to start. But keep this in mind: An action isn’t a sin because the Bible says it is. The Bible says it’s [...]
When you have a chance to brighten someone’s day, do it I just got off a call with Gail Porter, one of my favorite writer friends. She was having some technical issues and needed someone to brainstorm solutions with. As we were wrapping up and I was wishing her luck (because even though she insisted [...]
Sometimes it’s better to not say anything One of my favorite advice columns is Miss Manners. I enjoy Judith Martin’s wit and style, and I’m fascinated by the questions people ask. I’m especially intrigued by the “What should I say when …” type of question. We’ve all been in situations where we didn’t know [...]
Are you making it hard for people to respond to your message? QR codes are everywhere these days. And they’re great for smartphone users to respond instantly to a promotional message. But what if your customer doesn’t want to use a QR code? Assuming that everyone else prefers the same communication method they do [...]
If you have old books, keep them—don’t throw them away Language is constantly evolving. Words that were in common use years ago are forbidden now. Words that were insults years ago are acceptable now. And definitions are changing. For example, when I was growing up, calling someone “queer” was a slur. It was a [...]
If you want to write a book, start with a plan. Not just a plan for the book itself (what it’s about, its structure, your writing schedule, etc.) but a more comprehensive plan that treats your project like a small business with a single product. Write a business plan for your book. The idea of [...]
Get your tabs under control with groups in Chrome When it comes to how we browse the internet, there are two kinds of people: those who never have more than two or three tabs open at once and those who often have 20, 30 or even more tabs open at the same time. I’m [...]
