Children take the adults in their world for granted.

Often, it’s not until we are well into our own adulthood that we recognize the impact that the grown-ups who seemed to be “just there” had on who we became.

My Aunt Gene (yes, her name was spelled the “boy’s” way) was one of those people in my life: always there, always kind and caring, but never a pushover (well, maybe sometimes).

This isn’t an obituary. That’s being prepared by my cousins and I’ll share that later. These are my thoughts and memories of a woman who loved her family passionately and unconditionally, whose faith was unwavering, and whose life was a rich adventure.

Aunt Gene expected the best of people and had a way of making you strive to be everything she knew you could be. If you fell short, that was okay – you knew she still loved you and she would be there to support and help you pick yourself up and try again.

She had an amazing mind. She did not walk in lock-step with anyone; she paid attention, did her research, formed her own opinions. She embraced technology and wasn’t afraid of change. And she had a wonderful sense of humor.

I don’t think she realized what a significant role model she was. She just tried to always do the right thing and, when asked, guide others in the right direction. She was our family’s rock and glue, always firm and solid, always working to keep our scattered lives connected.

On April 10, 2014, God decided she had completed her work on Earth and He called her home. Her venue has changed; her influence has not. She leaves behind a beloved husband, children, grandchildren, extended family and friends around the globe – all who make up a remarkable legacy that will impact our world for generations to come.

We miss your physical presence, Aunt Gene. But thanks to you, we’ll be fine.

Jacquelyn Lynn
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